这是经典都市女性剧《欲望都市》的顾问和编剧两人共同创作的小说，相传创作灵感来源于作者格雷格·贝伦特和丽兹·塔琪萝的一次对话，而《他其实没那么喜欢你》这个名字也来源于《欲望都市》2003年第一集的名称。改编的同名电影09年上映，其演员阵容只有“令人发指”这个词能够形容了，斯嘉丽·约翰逊、詹妮弗·安妮斯顿、德鲁·巴里摩尔、贾斯汀·朗、本·阿弗莱克、詹妮弗·康纳利、贾斯汀·朗、金妮弗·古德温……大牌云集！
简介——
It’s a classic single-woman scenario: you really like this guy, but he’s giving mixed messages. You make excuses, decide he’s confused, afraid of commitment. Behrendt, a former executive story editor for Sex and the City—and a formerly single (now happily married) guy who knows all the excuses—provides a simple answer: he’s just not that into you. Stop kidding yourself, let go and look for someone else who will be. After all, as Behrendt sensibly puts it, "if a (sane) guy really likes you, there ain’t nothing that’s going to get in his way." If you’re not convinced yet, by all means read this smart, funny and surprisingly upbeat little book, full of q’s and a’s covering every excuse woman has ever made to avoid admitting to herself that a man just wasn’t that smitten with her.